Some Men are just oblivious! Women like acknowledgment and loving affection. They want a person with whom they can relate. They want a person they can trust. They want to be able to discuss future plans and problems they might be having, without difficulties. Women are mysterious, but they will show you what it feels like to be truly loved, as long as you’re willing and able to accept the responsibility of a true loving relationship. You have to show them and mean it, no matter how hard it may be for you at the time.

1. Be compassionate and understanding. Women like men who are compassionate and understanding and someone who genuinely cares. A woman wants to be able to say in her mind, “Oh what a good man.” A woman wants a man to tell her often how important she is to him and as well as showing her that in his actions! Flowers, a gift, a card, for no reason, or even just a phone call or leaving a loving message on her voice mail while she is at work!!! All a little extra touch that tell her she matters. It’s also important for a man to be confident in himself and have dignity. And to be both very loving and confident (not clingy and needy) is very attractive.
2. Give her thoughtful gifts- women love surprises. Gifts don’t always need to be expensive, but always from the heart. Gifts should never be about the “money”. It’s the thought involved and the reason behind it. It just shows you really care and she is the one you are thinking about.
3. Give flowers for no particular reason without waiting for a birthday or holiday. Even if you are away, you can order them online and have them delivered on the date you choose. Some of the best things are just a single flower she loves. Men sometimes think they have to be rich but its the thought guys. Remember to send stuff to her office on occasion as a nice surprise. It isn’t enough to make her feel important it’s also important for others around her to see she’s treated well and spoiled.
4. Never ever forget her birthday, Christmas,New Years, Valentines Day, Mother’s Day–all her friends are getting little love gifts and acknowledgment and women compare how thoughtful their man was. If you want to be King then you better be on top of things. Anything is better than nothing.
5. Be polite and complimentary. Women like to hear “please”, “I am sorry”, “I promise” and “thank you.” Also, ask her how her day is going. Tell her she is gorgeous, beautiful, pretty, and that she has lovely eyes. Just telling her she is wonderful often helps. Thank her for everything she does for you. In addition, recognize that there is more to her than the physical aspect.
6. Be a good listener. Have respect for her thoughts and opinions. Recognize her intelligence and strong points. Even if you don’t agree with her, find good points from both perspective’s. It’s paramount to her knowing she is seen as a total person. Never cut her down, even if you are kidding. Find something unique about her that no one has ever told her about.
7. When you are in places where you can’t be visibly affectionate, look at her and smile lovingly.’ Be a gentleman, OPEN the doors for her, some say this is “old fashioned”, not the case. It is a sign of respect, and just common courtesy in public for both sexes. However, don’t just do it in public, still common courtesy, at home also-put her first as she is a lady.
8. Be a good communicator. Listen to her, hear her out, and give eye contact to let her know you are giving full attention. Be interested in her. However, you also need to open up and tell her your thoughts, opinions, and problems, but wait until she is done telling you her thoughts. Do not interrupt. Help give ideas about possible solutions to problems, but praise her if she finds something other than what you suggest.
9. Brag about her to your friends and to hers. This is especially important as relationships grow. She’ll like knowing she is appreciated and that his friends know he is in love with you.
10. Look the woman straight in the eye when giving compliments.
11. In general, it’s best not to say another woman is beautiful to you (if the woman you are with is not the most beautiful woman to you then you are probably not in love). Be respectful towards your woman in how you treat other woman. Even if they are and were your friends before her. Any favors, gestures or flirting can be threatening. It does depend on what type of relationship you have though. Sometimes the bond is so strong that no matter what, you both know you love each other and neither one feels threatened by this type of thing.
12. Smile and be polite.
13. Help around the house. If it needs to be done do it without expecting her to. Remember: Work is important, but the house work is both of your responsibility. Don’t expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the best ways to a woman’s heart is to do house work!
14. Don’t leave sexuality completely up to the woman if you’re in a relationship together. If you feel like the time is right, gently let her know how you feel. And when a women says she wants to spend quality time with you, don’t assume she is thinking about the bedroom! Usually, she means spending time together one on one, whether you are in your PJ’s watching a movie, or just going for a drive.
15. Tell her she is beautiful. Not hot. “Pretty” and “hot” have their place, but “beautiful” goes right to the heart. Sometimes she’ll look hot or sexy, so tell her. Don’t tell her too often that she is cute, she is after all a woman and not a child. Pay attention and know what part of her ego needs reinforcing.
16. Compliment her on things other than her looks. What are her special qualities? Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! But sometimes she wants to feel like she’s arm candy to you.
17. If she gets annoyed or upset with something you did or did not do, apologize first. Explain later, if she asks for explanation. Speak gently and be sincere. Women are adept at reading sincerity. It’s possible she will give up on the fight and forget about it.
18. Accept her interest in hobbies that don’t involve you.
19. Avoid being jealous of male friends, co-workers, and exes without good reason, because she talks to them about you all the time. They know she’s taken.
20. Talk to your friends, co-workers, and family about how lovely she is, too. It will make her feel good, even if you think she won’t know you said it. It’s always best, anyway. (Women just know things. They’re very intuitive.) Plus talking about her in such a nice way makes you want to see her as soon as possible, and only good things can come from that.
21. Always make sure you cherish her because in most cases she is going to be there when no one else is.
22. Remember, she’s a woman, and her thoughts about what she wants can change day by day. Don’t get mad at her for it. Love her for it, because, hey, she’s a woman, and you like that about her.
23. Never forget, compliments go a long way. You can’t be mister charming at the beginning of the relationship and then, once you’re involved, just stop the charm! That’s not right, and it makes her feel like she’s done something wrong to make you not feel that way anymore. Either that, or she’ll feel like she was stupid for not seeing you for who you really were in the first place. If you’re going to be charming and romantic, you have to STAY that way. PERIOD. No matter how “comfortable” you are. A woman NEEDS the man she fell in love with. Don’t become detached and take her for granted.
24. ‘Romance her (COURTSHIP), . Try to catch her attention. There needs to be some romance in the relationship. Maybe not every day, but court her. Take charge, women like to feel swept away. And don’t expect certain things at the end of the night. However, 9 times out of ten, you play your cards right and she will initiate. If it is an anniversary of some sort, Men, listen up. Surprise her, especially if you don’t surprise her with much. If you are with a highly respectable women, money or random gifts that cost to much are not the way to her heart. You will make a larger impression with a nice card and hand written words from your heart and a single rose, or small box of her favorite chocolates. And if you have a little money to put out, a simple necklace, or pretty earrings, can be found for $100 or less! It shows you put thought into your relationship and how much she means to you! Never ever ask a women if you should get her something for an occasion. Women love gifts, as long as they are thoughtful, it won’t matter if you spent anything on it. Make a card, do something corny in your own charming little way. They will remember it forever!
25. If you want it to go further than “making out,” you have to “make out” first. You can’t skip steps! If she lets you, it’s only because she thinks that’s what you want. She loves the steps it takes getting there. Even if you’ve gone that far before, this still applies.
26. So note, women are delicate, even the toughest of women long for romance. Think with your own mind and let your true affections show. Nothing speaks more than written words. If you are in a good relationship she will do the same in return. But be Men, and step into your role! Women want to feel wanted that you enjoy their company. Sneak up behind them and wrap your arms around them for an intimate hug. Kiss her neck. Show her you enjoy being close with her.
27. Don’t go out of your way to get the last word just to win an argument. It will make you look uneducated and selfish. Gently explain yourself and then give her time to answer. Do not use profanity as you will lose an argument automatically.
28. Don’t make and break plans without a very good explanation and an apology. Make sure you call and not text to make such changes.
29. Always take care of your girl – make sure all her needs are met. Besides a home, car, electric, water, food, clothing, appliances, medical, dental, vision and all those other needs, she needs to know most of all that you LOVE HER AND ONLY HER. Surprise her today with a small gift she will cherish forever-give her your heart.
30. Always be respectful to her parents, they mean the world to her. If you don’t respect the parents you should might as well say goodbye to her.
31. A woman (actually people in general) can be very temperamental at times. Respect her wishes when she needs space to breathe. Do your best to listen to her and provide tender loving care.
32. If you love her and can’t imagine your life without her then make the commitment. If she walked out the door tomorrow could you live your life without her in it? Its not about the sparkly ring, its about knowing you want to spend your life with them. She won’t want to be your girlfriend forever. She wants the stability of marriage.
33. Why not plan that special surprise another way? Speak to her friends, listen to them, and plan a surprise for your loved one that way.

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